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Is it also time to consider how you’ll avoid overspending? **For example:** - Have you shopped for holiday gifts with a “one for them, one for me” approach? - Do you forget to track your spending, especially on small items like stocking stuffers? - Could heightened emotions or competitive impulses sway you to buy an unnecessary gift for yourself or give your children more? The 3-D method – determine, distract, delay – is recommended by *Lean Body Fat Wallet* authors Ellie Kay and Danna Demetre. It can be an easy-to-remember way to shop smart without overindulging and having buyer’s remorse. ### 1. Determine It’s vital to know what you need before shopping. Make a list of not only the items you need to purchase, but the stores you will visit. This can help you steer clear of wandering into impulse shopping territory. You may also want to set a time limit to help you get in and get out of stores. ### 2. Distract Have a tough time saying no to your children when shopping together? Ask them to help you create the list before shopping. Then they too can focus on what you need instead of finding things you don’t. Be mindful of your long-term goals when something that’s not on the shopping list catches your eye. Carrying a picture of your family or a vacation destination in your wallet may help you pause and rethink before adding a “want” rather than a “need” to your cart. ### 3. Delay Some financial experts recommend waiting a week to see if you still want an item, others suggest 24 hours. It’s likely you’ll forget all about the cute shoes or computer gadget that was tempting you. Another technique is to use cash and leave credit cards at home. You may want to even go as far as literally freezing your credit – by freezing your card in a block of ice. 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